The Enemy of Our Time is Inaction

If you're like me, you spent the past weekend indoors, awaiting the arrival of an ice storm that [thankfully] didn't materialize for most of the state. And, if you're like me, that also means you spent most of your time eating, sleeping, and catching up on your Netflix queue. Or, to put it more bluntly, you were inactive. 

PHYSICAL INACTION

What happens to our body when we are physically inactive for too long? Nothing good, right? You get lazy, lethargic, fat, and flabby. You can't do all the things you used to. You start to see other things in your life slip, you feel uninspired, demoralized, and maybe even depressed. In some cases, you just give up and let the world pass you by. 

I hate to break it to you, but the same thing happens when we become politically inactive. (Yes, I realize I'm making a connection between two things many people dislike: exercise and politics. But those are also two things we all know we need to be better about, right? Okay, so just hear me out...)

POLITICAL INACTION

What happens when you are politically inactive for too long? Again, nothing good. When we stop caring about what happens in our government, when we tune out and "let ourselves go," things have a way of just...getting worse over time. Slowly, at first, but then one day you wake up and realize that we, as a state, can't do all the things we used to. You look around and see that everything has begun to slip - teachers losing jobs, health outcomes in the toilet, roads crumbling as you drive. Your state is near the bottom in all the measures that people care about when they're looking for a place to raise their families. You find yourself whispering "Oh my gosh...what is going on with this place?" after nearly every news story. You feel helpless, demoralized, and probably even depressed. Political inaction means that we stand by, complacent in our negligence, as our state buckles under the weight of failed policy. And as you stand there, you realize that you have two options: give up and let Oklahoma continue to crumble, or decide to get involved and do something about it.

LET'S GET ACTIVE

We must be shapers of events, not observers, for if we do not act, the moment will pass, and we will lose the best possibilities of our future. We face no imminent threat, but we do have an enemy. The enemy of our time is inaction.

Those words, spoken 20 years ago by President Bill Clinton in his fourth State of the Union address, have never been more true than they are today, for you and I, right here in the great state of Oklahoma. It's up to us to make the brave, bold decision to become active participants in our state government. It's up to us to stop complaining online and get out there and act like we give a damn.

I challenge you to do just that - to do what very few of your fellow Oklahomans ever do - to voice your thoughts and your opinion directly to your legislators. I bet you didn't realize that it often only takes a few phone calls or emails to legislators to make a difference. The thing is, if you're not talking to them, someone else is - and that someone else is probably lobbyists and special interest groups. But who is more "special" than you, the voters? No one, but the public doesn't have a lobbyist. We just have ourselves. 

A DAY AT THE CAPITOL FOR REGULAR FOLKS

Over the next few months we are hosting several events to help you (and all the other regular folks out there) share your thoughts with the elected officials at the Capitol, and we'd love for you to join us. These events are designed for people who have never been to the state Capitol before so that you feel comfortable, prepared, and maybe even a little excited. 

February 9th we're having an Info & Training Session where we will talk about the state budget, other issues, and what to expect at the Capitol Day & Capitol Crawl (see below). Details will be posted to the event pages on our Facebook & website.

February 15th is two events:

First, it's our first Capitol Day of the 2017 legislative session. We'll meet at the Capitol in room 412-A at 9am to hear from a few legislators about why hearing from constituents is important and recommendations for how to have a successful Capitol visit. After that, we'll break out and do visit our legislators' offices. (Pro tip: We recommend that you call ahead and schedule an appointment to meet with your legislators on that day so that you can be sure to catch them in the office.) More details can be found on our Facebook event page as well as the event page on our website, so check back often for updates!

Second, it's our first Capitol Crawl of 2017. Following the Capitol Day, we will convene in several local restaurants, coffeeshops, and bars just down the street from the Capitol to meet, greet, and visit with legislators in a more relaxed environment. We had seven legislators participate in our first Crawl in December, and we look forward to having more at each one this spring. Details will be posted to our Facebook & website soon!

CAN'T MAKE IT?

If you can't make it to these events, don't worry - we're going to repeat the same format every month of the legislative session (February-May) as well as several impromptu events, so you'll have many more chances. Subscribe to our Facebook events page and sign up for our email list and you'll never miss an invite! Remember - decisions are made by those who show up. 

Also, regardless of whether or not you can make it up to the Capitol in person, you can always call and email your representatives. You can find out who your House & Senate members are here, and we have a full list of all members' contact info available here. 

Remember, they can't represent you effectively if you don't talk to them. This is how we do it. This is how we fix this.

Why We're Here

A few hours ago I watched President Obama deliver his farewell speech to the nation. It was a good speech - warm, reflective, inspiring. All the things you'd want an outgoing, two-term president's speech to be. After the speech I did some laundry and did some tidying up around the house, but I couldn't stop thinking about one passage of the speech that resonated with me so strongly that it kinda weirded me out. Here's the passage:

If you’re tired of arguing with strangers on the Internet, try talking with one of them in real life. 

If something needs fixing, then lace up your shoes and do some organizing.

If you’re disappointed by your elected officials, grab a clip board, get some signatures, and run for office yourself. 

Show up, dive in, stay at it.

Sometimes you’ll win, sometimes you’ll lose. And more often than not, your faith in America and in Americans will be confirmed. Mine sure has been.

Did you catch that? Read the second sentence of the passage again:

If something needs fixing, then lace up your shoes and do some organizing.

That is literally how Let's Fix This got started. I saw that something needed fixing, so I laced up my shoes (err...or created a Facebook event) and started organizing. You can imagine my surprise when the leader of the free world told the American people to do that very same thing.

HOW IT ALL STARTED

In the spring of 2016, the local media posted story after story about the state budget shortfall and it's ramifications on state services. The government had declared not one but two "revenue failures" which resulted in two across-the-board budget cuts to all state agencies. Teachers and child welfare workers lost their jobs, disabled people lost benefits, poor people lost health insurance coverage. It was bad news all around, and it was getting worse every day. Like most folks, I mostly just reposted news articles on Facebook and exclaimed "Somebody should fix this!"

Now, I need to admit to you that at the time, I had never contacted my state legislators. Not even once. I didn't even know who they were. I actually had a couple of friends who were in the legislature, but I hadn't even bothered to reach out to them about anything. Sure, I knew I was "supposed" to send emails and make phone calls, but I didn't think it would matter and somehow I continued to rationalize that I didn't have time to do that. (As if sending one more email is really going to throw my entire day off track. Sheesh.) I started joking to friends that we should do it better - rather than an email or phone call, we should just take the day off of work and go to the Capitol and have a face-to-face conversation with our legislators about these issues. After the fourth or fifth person responded with "Yes, we should do that. If you organize it, I'll go with you," I knew what I needed to do. It seemed increasingly clear that my exclamation needed to change from "Someone should fix this" to "Let's fix this," with the contracted "us" meaning all of us - you, me, and our state legislators. We're all in this together, and we needed (and still need) to fix some stuff with how our government runs.

WHO WE ARE AND WHAT WE DO

On my closet door still hangs a giant, 3' x 2' Post-It note from our first group meeting, on which we brainstormed a list of who we are and what we do:

 

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The starred items are what it all boils down to: We are regular people who promote civic engagement and provide education to the public (about governmental/political topics) and to the legislature (about how those issues actually affect Oklahomans in real life). We want to empower people to engage with their elected officials by helping them understand how easy it is to do (and how effective it actually can be!). And while we are also nonpartisan, we also want to encourage our state legislature to be less partisan as well. Many of the issues facing our state really aren't inherently partisan issues, or at least they shouldn't be. Both parties should properly funding support public education. Both parties should support ensuring that widows and orphans and vulnerable people are protected and cared for. Both parties should support managing our state's money in such a way that is beneficial to the most people, not just for the benefit of the rich. And don't forget - both parties need input from their constituents. We can't expect them to represent us accurately if we don't talk to them.

Let's be honest - we're all sick and tired of Oklahoma being last in everything, right? Well, I hate to break it to you, but getting better is going to take work, and it's going to require all of us working together to get there. You don't magically lose a bunch of weight by yelling on Facebook that "someone" needs to exercise - you actually have to do some work. (You also don't lose weight by simply pointing out that someone else is overweight, but that's the sort of non-working, painfully partisan, mud-slinging that we've gotten mired in.) 

WHAT'S NEXT?

You've got to do something, and I think you should make plans right now that you are going to be involved this legislative session. We want to make it super easy for you. Here's a quick to-do list to help:

1. Find out who your legislators are.

2. Call them or email them. It only takes 2 minutes, I promise.  (Pro tip: Write out what you want to say to them before you call. You can use this form we created to help you find your words.

3. Make plans to join us for one or more of our monthly Capitol Days. If you can, request off of work so you can really have a chance to experience and understand what happens at the Capitol. As an added bonus, in the evening following each Capitol Day we will have what we call a Capitol Crawl, where members of the legislature actually come hang out with us at nearby restaurants and bars. It's a really great opportunity to talk with them about issues in an environment that's not so...governmenty." [Web | Facebook]
    3a. Pro tip: if you plan to visit your representative and/or senator in person during a Capitol Day event, it's usually advisable to call ahead and make an appointment with them. 

4. Invite a friend or two (or twenty) to come with you. It's always less intimidating - and way more fun - when you have a friend with you. If they don't live in the same district as you, even better - you can go to each other's

5. Be sure to follow us on Facebook and Twitter so you can stay in the loop.

IN CLOSING

I started this post with a quote from Obama's speech, so in the spirit of bipartisanship, I'll end with a quote from the farewell speech of his predecessor, George W. Bush: 

President Thomas Jefferson once wrote, "I like the dreams of the future better than the history of the past." As I leave the house he occupied two centuries ago, I share that optimism. America is a young country, full of vitality, constantly growing and renewing itself. And even in the toughest times, we lift our eyes to the broad horizon ahead.

Oklahoma may be facing some tough times, but I, too, share in our past presidents' optimism about the future. We can do this, you guys. We can totally do this.

Knowing Your Limits

Several months ago Together Oklahoma invited me to write a blog about the importance of self care for advocates, and at the time I eagerly agreed. We had just finished the 2016 state legislative session and everyone was exhausted, including myself. I knew I had done a terrible job at self care - Let's Fix This began more-or-less on accident and blossomed more quickly than I had ever imagined. In response, I gave it my all without consideration for what it would mean for my physical or mental health. By the time the legislature proclaimed sine die near the end of May, I had a full-blown sinus infection, middle school-grade acne, and a sleep debt that could only be counted on both hands and feet. I was the poster child for "How not to take care of yourself."

Here's the deal: If we're honest with ourselves, we really do know our own limits - we just choose to ignore them and rationalize that whatever it is we're doing is more important, thereby justifying our self neglect for the sake of the greater good. Friends, I'm here to tell you that nobody believes that lie. Not your friends, not your family, not your own flesh. Burning the candle at both ends means you run out of light more quickly, and that doesn't help the cause whatsoever. What we all do believe is that taking care of yourself is not just advisable, it is downright necessary. There are dozens of TED talks that document it and articles that explain how to do it. Heck, the University of Buffalo School of Social Work even has a free, online Self-Care Starter Kit that you can use (and you should).

Some of you may know that my background is actually in mental health, not politics. (Hence the emphasis on the "regular people" theme with LFT.) I've been a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) for nearly 10 years, and during that time I've treated hundreds of people for a wide range of issues, including the ever-popular: "Trying to do too much stuff all at once" phenomenon. It's an increasingly common ailment in today's busier-than-thou world: we try to be everything to everyone, all the time. Our society values busyness and stress; we measure others' worth by how many hats they wear, on how many boards they serve, and on their ability to be seen at all the important events in town. And we fail, miserably, all the time.

We fail because that's not the way it should be. I confess that I'm absolutely guilty of perpetually overextending myself. For example, in addition to running Let's Fix This, I'm a single father, I have a demanding full-time job, and I'm also pursuing my MBA at the OU Price College of Business. I try to rationalize all these things by saying that LFT was an accident, school won't last forever, and someday I'll have an amazing job that allows me the freedom and flexibility to take breaks and vacations whenever I want while also saving the world during the work week. That's a lie, and both you and I know it. 

HOMEWORK

So here's my challenge to you: Do less stuff. I mean it. Say "no" more often. You know your limits, and you need to adhere to them. Choose one night each week to spend with your favorite person, whether that is your spouse, significant other, BFF, child, grandparent, whomever - just make it happen. (On a related note, go visit your grandparents. My grandma lives 10 minutes away and I'm terrible about this, but I'm pledging right now, publicly, that I am committed to improving that.) I promise you, it's much easier to stick to a plan that you've made in advance than it is to try to simply "wing it" each week. 

I promise you - once you've said "no" to a few things, you'll start to understand (and appreciate) the value in doing so. Freeing up one or two nights a week means you can spend more time with the person(s) that matter most to you...and that can most certainly include you. There is no shame in unplugging and choosing to be alone for a bit. Whether you want to exercise, sew, take a bath, read a book, watch a movie, play video games, etc., the point is, doing something for yourself that takes your mind off of work (or "work") will invariably make you feel better and make you more productive once you return. 

Promoting Public Comment

You know how most city council meetings have an item on the agenda for "public comment?" That's the time when they allow residents to get up and share their opinion/perspective on a given issue. In most every city council meeting, you can show up, sign in, and be granted a few minutes to speak on the topic at hand. Pretty cool, right? Our city government actually setting aside time to hear from the public on matters that will affect them. 

Well, our state government doesn't really do that. There isn't a provision in the state legislature's operating procedures that allows for public comment during committee hearings. The committee chair can invite individuals to share their thoughts on the subject, but there isn't a dedicated time for public comment on the agenda. 

But what if there was?

What if there was an easier way for the public to share our thoughts and opinions directly to the state House & Senate committees regarding the bills they're reviewing? Many other states do this already. Some states allow comments in person while others have an online tool, but either way the public comments are heard. The comments of the people, both in favor and against, would be part of the history of that legislation. 

We think that'd be great, and here's what we're doing about it.

We've drafted a letter to all committee chairs requesting that they schedule a short period of time - even just 10 minutes - for public comment during each committee meeting. We're asking other organizations, elected officials, and constituents who think this is a good and worthy idea to add their names to the letter.  

If this is something you support - this crazy idea that maybe the public should be able to share our opinion about legislation directly to the committees that are voting on it - please complete the form below to add your name to the list!  

Signatories

Organizations

• Amnesty OKC
• CAIR Oklahoma
• OKC AIDS Coalition
• Generation Citizen Oklahoma
• Oklahoma Coalition for Reproductive Justice
• Oklahoma Parents & Educators for Public Education
• Oklahoma Policy Institute
• Planned Parenthood Great Plains Votes

Legislators

• Representative Jason Dunnington
• Representative Cyndi Munson
• Senator David Holt

Plus more than 100 individual registered voters!

The Plan for 2017

Wow, what a year it's been! It's hard to imagine that it was just 8 months ago I created a Facebook event and invited a bunch of people to join me at the Capitol to talk to our lawmakers about the dire situation in which we found ourselves. That event exceed my wildest expectations and it was clear that the public was thirsty for way to be involved, so we held another event, and then another, and then another. Since April, we've mobilized thousands of Oklahomans - most of them just regular folks who, like me, had never done anything political in their lives. We've worked hard to create opportunities for people to engage with their government in meaningful ways. We've fostered conversations between the public and their legislators wherever we can - at the Capitol, on social media, at restaurants, and even in bars. And that was just the first year!

Where does that leave us for 2017, you ask? Well, we've been busy making plans and putting things into motion. Here's a quick preview of what we have scheduled right now, and we will be rolling out more content every week for the next several months:

Staying true to our roots, we will be holding "Capitol Day" every month while the legislature is in session where people can come meet with their legislators and get some information and training from us. 

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We're also going to have a "Capitol Crawl" each month as well (usually the same days that we're at the Capitol), where representatives, senators, and city leaders come out of their offices and interact with the public in places where we "regular folks" feel more comfortable - namely the restaurants, coffee shops, and bars of our communities. 

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In the final days of the legislative session, it's almost inevitable that the House and/or Senate will have some long floor debates that extend into late night hours, sometimes as late as 9pm, 10pm, or even midnight. During these late night sessions, the legislature often debates very important bills, including the state budget, and they occur long after the public and news crews have gone home. So, this year we're going to make sure that they know we're paying attention, regardless of what time it is, and we're going to gather outside the chambers and continue to have face-to-face conversations with legislators. Can't make it that late? You can still participate by communicating with your legislators via social media while they're in session.

(Because of the unpredictable nature of these events, be sure you're following us on Twitter & Facebook so you can catch the announcements.)

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Feeling unprepared for all of that? Don't worry - we'll get you ready. We understand that going to the Capitol to talk to legislators can be kind of intimidating, but it's a lot easier if you feel confident in what you're going to say before you go. Most people can identify a problem, but when it comes time to suggest a solution, sometimes folks lock up and shut down. So, we're going to be hosting Info & Training Sessions in the community and online where you can learn how to be a better advocate for yourself. We'll also post tools and resources to our website that you can print off at home and practice before you go.

Remember, we're all in this together. Oklahomans have always relied on one another to survive. We believe that the "Oklahoma Standard" should be a way of life, not just something that happens when there's a traumatic event or natural disaster. That standard - the desire to help our neighbors, a respect for others, a willingness to seek solutions in order to overcome big challenges - should be the basis for our society and for our government. The public is sick of the bickering and partisan politics, which is why we are nonpartisan and why we actively promote transparency and civil discourse between parties. We applaud those (in the community and in the legislature) who actively reach out to those who may see the world differently so that they can learn to see from another perspective. Whether that's across the aisle, across town, or across the state, we must work together to fix this place.

We look forward to seeing familiar faces and meeting new people at each event this year. If you've attended LFT events in the past and plan to come again this year, please invite someone to come with you. It could be your friend, your neighbor, your coworker, or that person who posts political rants on Facebook all day. Tell them to put their words into action, just like you're doing. You don't even have to agree on issues or be of the same political party - just get them to come and participate in something bigger than themselves and see what it's like. Heck, bring them to a Capitol Crawl and let's have a beer or share some cheese fries or something. We all want Oklahoma to be better, right? Great, so let's stand on that common ground and work toward solutions together.